Brothers Of Heart
Two secrets kissing, touching, holding, taking each other, being carried away by Eros––
this is a longing for many men when it comes to love and sexuality.
Yet many times Eros comes with challenges.
There are many reasons for this.
One major reason is:
In the dance of Eros, many men do not know that not only our Lingam is different than a woman's sexual organs.
Also our hearts are different.
A men's heart has different needs, challenges, and gifts to share.
In the new cycle of the Brothers of Heart starting July 14th, 2019, you are invited to get to know them more deeply in a safe space.
The theme for the new Brothers is Wild Peace Masculine.
You, as a man, are invited to start the dance of the Masculine and Feminine within yourself.
We do so by supporting the biggest sexual organ of a man--his heart.
The circle of men meets ten times in convenient video conference calls
and examines core questions for every man, regardless of nationality, sexual orientation or walks of life.
Joachim, Guardian of the Brothers Of Heart
"If you are a man who feels challenged by your intimate relationship or the lack of it,
here is good news: you have a lot to offer.
It is something most men don't know.
You have to offer your fear or anger when being challenged by a woman or man;
your joy to feel nature or another human being;
the rage of your wounds;
the beauty of feeling the body and what you can do with it.
What most men don't know is: Your feelings are signposts to the essence of your existence.
Following them guides you through your struggles to your potential.
If you meet your shadow and light, and really embrace both,
there is only one thing left:
You have to make a decision; every day.
Which side do you take, light or shadow?
What do you co-create with it, in love and sexuality, alone, with a partner?
This is your truth, your freedom.
Only this is real to me.
And here is more good news: You don't have to find your truth alone.
In my experience as a psychotherapist working with men for years now
what really helps is being able to explore the unique gifts of struggles and feelings in a safe space with other men.
This is why I created the Brothers Of Heart.
It’s an online community for men who care, for themselves and for others.
All men in the circle support each other in a respectful way
to feel each other's heart and powers and weaknesses
making a difference by being a vulnerable, accountable man in the world.
In this circle, you can count on the intelligence of all men participating.
I am happy to pass on the gifts of many years of exploring what is real for men,
and welcome you to the Brothers of Heart
to become real
by sharing your truth.
If you have any questions please feel free to contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org"
Gerfried, co-facilitator Brothers Of Heart
„The permanent research on being a man is really helping me personally. And it satisfies me – although it is not only comfortable. But I feel myself expanding. The variety of my actions are getting wider.
Therefore I’m so happy to do this personal work and to support other men in developing on their own way too.
Due to the deep, warm, heartful and honest exchanges in our circle, we support each other in a unique way.“
The heart of a man is different than the heart of a woman. When he realizes that, he might open up to a whole new universe in love and sexuality.
Theme: Wild Peace Masculine
10 Meetings in convenient Online calls on Sundays
starting Sunday, July, 14th, 2019
at 8.30 pm CEST (Berlin), 7.30 pm BST (London), 2.30 pm EST (New York), 11.30 am PST (Los Angeles)
(Each meeting lasts 120 minutes. Language is English)
Price: 225 Euro
(by PayPal. Monthly payment possible)
To register for the new circle of Brothers exploring Wild Peace Masculine, please write to
You will get a registration form. After you have registered and paid you get the link to the video call room we are meeting in.
No account needed.
You will just click on the link to get access to the circle.
"The last year of being in the Brothers has been a place of deep support and sharing with other men, a place where I can truly be and explore myself as a man, something I look forward to each time we meet. Joachim's facilitation creates a warm and welcoming space where true transformation occurs."
Michael Thayer, USA
"The Brothers of Heart are my tribe of men. We meet online every 2 weeks or so, and we are also there for each other whenever needed. I appreciate that we are real with each other, we share how things really are, for us. I love that we are on a growing path together, learning new things, healing old stuff. And I love that we include the full range of what it means for us to be men, whether it’s wildness and fire, vulnerability, frustration, feeling a lot or not feeling anything."
Nicolas Amaya, Spain
In this 3-minute trailer, you get a glimpse of the documentary "What is it like to be a man for you?". The full video clip is shown below.
For an enhanced experience you can activate subtitles in English (by clicking on the screen icon in the lower bar of the screen)
Five men from around the world–Japan, Ireland, Palestine, and the USA–share their insights about what it is like to be a man for them in this touching video clip introduced by Joachim. Within around 25 minutes they address the pressure of cultures, the vulnerabilities as boys, the maturity of bonding, and the accountability towards women. For an enhanced experience you can activate English subtitles by clicking on the screen icon in the lower bar of the screen.
To register for the Free Intro Call of Brothers on Sunday, July 7th, 2019 exploring Wild Peace Masculine, please write to